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What Type of a Hijabi Are You? Print E-mail
By Various | Saudi Life
Sunday, 20 February 2011 11:05

By Aysha Umer | Contribution to Saudi Life

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1. Are you an "Occasional Hijabi"?

  • Do you cover yourself only when you are in an Islamic gathering or when you do the recitation of the Qur'an?
  • Do you cover yourself when you are in the KSA and forget that you are a Muslim as soon as your plane lands in another country?
  • Do you cover yourself when you go out, but display your pics on Facebook for others to see? (My dear sisters-in-Islam, even if you have privatized your photos and you say that only your friends can see it, BEWARE! Anyone can save our photos and then do whatever they want with it and then you never know where they will end up. Not to mention the fact that you friends may have people around while they are viewing the photos, who are non-mahram to you!)
  • 2. Are you a "Half Hijabi"?

    • Do you sometimes cover only your head and then wear tight jeans or perhaps any other tight outfit? (Seriously, there are many people who do that, and it is such an insult for the hijabis!)
    • Do you cover your head but leave a part of it open either from the back or the front, so that you may look prettier?
    • Do you cover your complete body but are the 'abayas' you wear are so attractive and colourful that they draw attention and probably need another abaya over them to cover their adornment?

    What is the actual intention behind this? What else can it be other than to attract guys? Do you dress up the same way when you know that there will be no guys around you?

     Hijab checklistBy the way, for those who don’t know, Hijab is to be maintained infront of non-mahrams (most males) and Alhamdulillah, we can dress up and beautify ourselves infront of our mahrams (our father, brothers, father's brothers, mother's brothers, grandfathers, sons, father-in-law, brother's sons, sister's sons, sons-in-law and young boys who haven't attained puberty) and in the gatherings of women.

    Ponder over this hadeeth:

    The prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said:

    "In later (generations) of my ummah there will be women who will be dressed but naked. On top of their heads (what looks) like camel humps. They will not enter into paradise or (even) get a smell of it." (Muslim)

    My dear Sister’s in Islam, have you ever thought about the purpose of the Hijab?

    Why do we wear Hijab?

  • Is it because you don’t have any other option but to wear it in KSA?
  • Is it because your parents tell you to do so?
  • Is it because people around you do so?
  • OR IS THERE SOMETHING MORE TO IT?

    Do you feel oppressed wearing it? Be frank to yourself.

    Let’s see what our Lord has to say about it.

    The reason why Hijabis prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzaab:

    Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

    "O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." [Al-Qur’an 33:59]

    The Qur’an says that Hijab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.

    Now let’s analyze: Why do Muslims wear Hijab?

    1. Because it is an order from Allah. Simple, Allah ordered us and we do it. Islam is to submit to Allah's orders, to win His pleasure, to to do what He wants, and refrain from what He dislikes. He created us and everything around us, and He created us to worship Him alone. That’s the reason we exist right now and we have to return to Him, to account for every moment of our lives. Allah says: “And I have created Jinn and men only to worship me”. (51:56)

    2.  We are precious. A father's advice to a daughter: "Hana, everything that God made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to. Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground, covered and protected. Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected in a beautiful shell. Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine, covered over with layers and layers of rock... You've got to work hard to get to them." He looked at me with serious eyes. "Your body is sacred. You're far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too."

    3.  It's our right. When a woman is covered, men cannot judge her by her appearance but are forced to evaluate her by her personality, character, and morals. Hijab is a responsibility plus a right given to us by our Creator, Who knows us best. It's a benefit to us, so why not wear it? Why should we display our beauty to anybody and everybody? Is that all what being female is about? Are our bodies that cheap? Why do we wish to make mindless objects of ourselves? Why wouldn't harrasment increase, if we are providing the material for it? Think about it!

    This is ME reminding myself first and then my dear sisters-in-Islam JUST IN CASE YOU FORGOT! :-)

     

    Comments  

    0 Abdullah Broomes 2011-02-20 15:41 #
    My Hijaab, My Path

    A Comprehensive Knowledge Based Compilation on Muslim Women’s Role & Dress.

    Collected and Arranged by Umm Mujaahid Khadijah Bint Lacina al-Amreekiyyah (a student of knowledge who has previously studied at Dar al-Hadeeth in Mab'ar- Yemen, Dar al-Hadeeth Damaaj- Yemen, and presently studies at Dar al-Hadeeth in Shihr -Yemen).

    dawahatreading.blogspot.com/2009/09/my-hijaab-my-path.html
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    +1 D 2011-02-20 17:21 #
    Most people have forgot the reasons behind a lot of things in Islam and deal with religon as a culture not a way of life send to us to follow and understand.
    Thank you my sister for reminding girls and "parents" who have an importent role to teach their kids about the real purpose of hijab.
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    0 saba 2011-02-20 20:30 #
    jazakAllah sister!x
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    0 Majeeda 2011-02-22 18:57 #
    Jazakillahu Khairan Kasira for this article! :)
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    0 Ali Shah 2011-02-23 09:27 #
    I see lots of women in Abaya.. but very few in Hijab.. Hijab is also the gaze, the taqwa within and the awareness of sitr...
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    0 thasneem 2011-04-14 18:40 #
    not 1ly d hijab is 2 cover the body it means to cover your beautiful voice and your gaze........and yeah der r so many ppls hu really dnt get to know the truth f hijab...if wat dey wear is covering according to custom den dey beleive dats the hijab!
    they give preference to culture over their deen!
    nyways gud reminder!
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    0 Safiyah 2011-08-14 12:00 #
    thanks for so great article. wallah it's all about faith, of course, but about society around you as well. here in moscow muslims are hated, if you are wearing hijab you may not find job, may not get to the university for studies, leave alone dangerous going in the streets in the evenings. Alhamdo lelah my husband lets me not work so i should not worry about this, but i still live in society and i need to contact it. here in russia many things depend on your nationality, because even muslim umma is devided to tatars, those from daghestan and chechnya and they usually live like tribes, they protect their wives and daughters, they go like groups. those slav people who converted to islam are very unprotected - first of all families: i know a lot of stories about violence; second thing is the society itself: there is none who would protect you or stand for you - you do all that yourself with Allah's help. what i'm trying to say is not to be in a hurry to judge someone who is not covered properly, because there are so many circumstances always which may not allow to do that. But this is related to non-islamic countries only. Sure in the place where hijab is requested by government but women try to avoid it - this is totally another story. And Allah knows the best.
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    +1 Nura 2011-08-26 23:16 #
    I am a European convert. I started wearing "hijab" 8 years ago, although maybe a Sudi will not consider my clothes a "proper" hijab. But well, for me it was, because I left bikinis and mini-skirts at once and started wearing long skirts or large pant, long and wide tops, and headscarves which completely covered my hair, my neck and my bosom.
    As a result, I have lost my job and my parents haven't talked to me for months. But alhmadulillah, I haven't regret my choice.
    I have been in Saudi Arabia for some months and here I dress like Saudi women do, I even wear the niqab. But when I go to Europe I change a little bit, anyway the niqab is forbidden in my country, but even if it wasn't I wouldn't wear it for the reason that my parents would die!
    My parents are still ashamed because of the nieighbors and don't allow me to visit them with an islamic attirement. So I have always visited them in winter, so that I covered with a long and wide winter coat and covered my head and neck with a woolen scarf. They don't invite any man at home because they know I would have to cover and they don't want it. (I want to add that some of their "friends" have cut every contact with them as soon as they knew I converted to Islam)
    For a long time I stood between the decision of not visiting them at all and stick to a "proper" hijab, or choose this compromise. Then I chose the second one, because I know they would suffer so much if I stop visiting them. They are old, they don't approove me of being a Muslim but still love me and my children very much. Besides, my hope is to bring them to accept Islam some day. I hope God will forgive me for not wear a proper hijab all the time...
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    0 Umm Zakiyyah 2011-08-27 14:41 #
    Quoting Nura:
    I am a European convert. I started wearing "hijab" 8 years ago, although maybe a Sudi will not consider my clothes a "proper" hijab. But well, for me it was, because I left bikinis and mini-skirts at once and started wearing long skirts or large pant, long and wide tops, and headscarves which completely covered my hair, my neck and my bosom.
    As a result, I have lost my job and my parents haven't talked to me for months. But alhmadulillah, I haven't regret my choice.
    I have been in Saudi Arabia for some months and here I dress like Saudi women do, I even wear the niqab. But when I go to Europe I change a little bit, anyway the niqab is forbidden in my country, but even if it wasn't I wouldn't wear it for the reason that my parents would die!
    My parents are still ashamed because of the nieighbors and don't allow me to visit them with an islamic attirement. So I have always visited them in winter, so that I covered with a long and wide winter coat and covered my head and neck with a woolen scarf. They don't invite any man at home because they know I would have to cover and they don't want it. (I want to add that some of their "friends" have cut every contact with them as soon as they knew I converted to Islam)
    For a long time I stood between the decision of not visiting them at all and stick to a "proper" hijab, or choose this compromise. Then I chose the second one, because I know they would suffer so much if I stop visiting them. They are old, they don't approove me of being a Muslim but still love me and my children very much. Besides, my hope is to bring them to accept Islam some day. I hope God will forgive me for not wear a proper hijab all the time...


    Nura, may Allah bless and preserve you always and may He write you down amongst those who enter Jannah without account due to your love of His religion and remaining steadfast upon what He loves. I myself am American and know that the struggles you mention are very, very real in the West. It is very difficult to balance between our obligations to Allah and our love and obligations to our parents/family when the latter are not Muslim or are not supportive of our practice of Islam. That the entire society is also against us makes the most normal activities extremely difficult for us, may Allah forgive us and make us stronger in this regard.

    I'd love to talk to you more about this and share ideas on how to best encourage other Muslims in your circumstance, as this is something that is close to my heart, which is why my novels address similar issues. Email me at ummzakiyyah@yah oo.com if you can. I'd love to keep in touch.

    May Allah love you and may you ever find joy and comfort in Salaah and Qur'an until you meet Allah. And may your last days be the best of your life, your last deeds your best deeds, and your best day the Day you meet Ar-Rahmaan.

    love,
    your sister in Islam
    Umm Zakiyyah
    themuslimauthor .com
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    0 desert rose 2012-04-06 15:24 #
    I dont agree with the quote from the article that women who do not cover when for example outside saudi arabia are not muslims or they forget they are muslims.

    I am sorry but the hijab is not one of the pillars of islam, the same way that the thobe and the beard ( the hijab for men) is not either.
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    0 thasneem 2012-04-06 15:40 #
    sister,
    i dont know whether you are talking with knowledge or not, yet as a fellow sister in deen it becomes compulsory on me to clear your misconception....
    firstly, a muslim is a one who actually submits to his Lord and dont question or deny any of His commands...so from the proofs from the Quranic Ayah( word f our Lord) and from the sunnah of our prophet ( which is also another important part of our sharee'ah), it becomes compulsory on all the beleiving women to observe the hijab>>>> note the ayah addresses those who beleive!!!!!if we are among the beleivers then YES u are supposd to wear your hijab( not only the head covering to be precise). so please dont ignore the fact that you are also a beleiving woman and the ayah is addresed to YOU!!!!
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    0 thasneem 2012-04-06 15:41 #
    Quoting desert rose:
    I dont agree with the quote from the article that women who do not cover when for example outside saudi arabia are not muslims or they forget they are muslims.

    I am sorry but the hijab is not one of the pillars of islam, the same way that the thobe and the beard ( the hijab for men) is not either.


    sister,
    i dont know whether you are talking with knowledge or not, yet as a fellow sister in deen it becomes compulsory on me to clear your misconception....
    firstly, a muslim is a one who actually submits to his Lord and dont question or deny any of His commands...so from the proofs from the Quranic Ayah( word f our Lord) and from the sunnah of our prophet ( which is also another important part of our sharee'ah), it becomes compulsory on all the beleiving women to observe the hijab>>>> note the ayah addresses those who beleive!!!!!if we are among the beleivers then YES u are supposd to wear your hijab( not only the head covering to be precise). so please dont ignore the fact that you are also a beleiving woman and the ayah is addresed to YOU!!!!
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