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I'm a Foreigner but Saudi Arabia is My Land Print E-mail
By Various | Saudi Life
Monday, 23 January 2012 00:43

By Talal Tashfeen Qayyum | Contribution to Saudi Life

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I'M a foreigner - an Ajnabi as the Saudis would call me. To them, I can never be a citizen of this great country. But, to me, Saudi Arabia is my land. I am from Pakistan, but when I think of ‘home’, I think Saudi Arabia. I was born here, I grew up here, I spent all my life here. I left to Malaysia to further my education a year and a half ago, and having come back for holidays, I realized that my affection for the country has grown even more. People there often ask me about why I adore Saudi Arabia so much, and thus I pen down the reasons:

The Spirituality

The spirituality of Saudi Arabia is amazing. I would call it the world’s most religious country, and rightly so. It feels amazing to hear the sounds of Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar emerge from every direction as the Adhan (call to prayer) is called from the numerous mosques, each glorifying Almighty Allah. Saudi Arabia is probably one of the few countries in the world where people actually stop to pray on the roadside! One can’t help but be closer to Allah here. I feel truly blessed to live in the land of Makkah and Madinah. I have seen people cry because they want to visit Makkah, but they can’t. Allah is indeed bountiful to us who have had the opportunity again and again to go there. Alhamdulillahi rabbil aa’lameen!

The Food

Any description could not do justice to the mouthwatering food here. The juicy shawarmas on the grill are so inviting! The juban and zaatar and kabsa, no other place I’ve been to can come close to the remarkable taste we get in Saudi Arabia. Many copycats have sprung up all over the world, but the broasted chicken here remains unique. Even the Pakistani food here is as good as that found in Pakistan. How exotic these foods sound compared to the bleak food of the outside world!

The Atmosphere

Everything from the left-handed-right-side-of-the-road driving to the Saudis saying InshaAllah (and leaving it literally to Allah) is lovely! It’s home! Yes, it’s hot here, but many have grown to love the 50 degrees Celcius here compared to the mild heat of other foreign lands. It only makes us feel more grateful for the winter season anyway.

What I love the most is how women are treated and respected here. No matter what people of other countries want to say or project about Saudi Arabia, this is the only country where women are truly cherished. Where else would you be able to find malls for only women or families? Women and families (you’re not a family unless you have a woman with you) are given priority in long lines whether they be at airport immigrations or restaurants. No one wants them to have to wait or suffer or be harassed! This is probably the only country where the majority of husbands go personally with their wives for grocery shopping and help around the house. Yes, you may argue it is because women are not allowed to drive, and to that I myself am the foremost supporter of their right to drive. This way men can actually rest after a long day at work instead of coming home and becoming drivers instead. However, I do admit that there are flaws even in this respect for women.

What needs to change?

Since I love Saudi Arabia so much, it is my duty to not be blinded by my love and to help in whatever way I can to improve this great country. Right now, I can only do it by suggesting and highlighting what I feel should be taken care of urgently:

We need a transport system here! Taxis are expensive and not possible for daily travel. Not everyone can afford drivers and not everyone can buy a car and not everyone’s parents are available to drive them around. Saudi Arabia has no financial issues, and first and foremost, a Monorail system needs to be developed here. This will not only bring in tourism to the country, it will make everyone’s lives easier, help reduce the cars on the road and considerably reduce the pollution.

Another thing which needs working on is Arabic language courses. You can find lists upon lists of English language centers all over Saudi Arabia on the internet. But, finding one for Arabic is a very challenging task. It’s like no one wants the non-Arabs to learn Arabic. Even in most non-Arab schools, Arabic is either not taught or if taught, not regulated properly. This results in people born and brought up in Saudi Arabia and yet having no knowledge whatsoever about Arabic. Not even Tajweed classes are readily available. Even if they are, the advertisements and information is all in Arabic.

May Allah bless Saudi Arabia!

 

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0 ابو البراء 2012-01-23 11:13 #
Sister I feel the same born there raised my whole family is there but no iqama
xxxxxx.

EDITED: Disrespectful and harsh remarks are not permitted.
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0 Talal Tashfeen 2012-01-23 12:32 #
It's *brother, and thank you I understand :)
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0 maha ch 2012-01-23 15:44 #
:roll: awsum thoughts..............
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0 Mohammed Zeeshan 2012-01-23 11:25 #
I second everything you write here hence defeating the purpose for me to write a similar article.
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0 Talal Tashfeen 2012-01-23 12:33 #
Quoting Mohammed Zeeshan:
I second everything you write here hence defeating the purpose for me to write a similar article.

Jazakallah for your kind words :)
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0 Safiyyah 2012-01-23 13:26 #
Salaams - Even the Prophet Muhammad (saw) allowed citizenship to "foreigners" as long as they were Muslim in Mecca and Medina, no?
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0 Umar 2012-01-23 14:19 #
You like the way women are respected here? You like the atmosphere? I'm sorry man, obviously you have are not aware of or choose to ignore the blatant violation of basic rights of expatriates in this country. And yes, I live in Saudi so I know exactly what I'm talking about.
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+1 UmmAbdullaah 2012-01-23 17:19 #
Quoting Umar:
You like the way women are respected here? You like the atmosphere? I'm sorry man, obviously you have are not aware of or choose to ignore the blatant violation of basic rights of expatriates in this country. And yes, I live in Saudi so I know exactly what I'm talking about.


Assalaamu alaikum

Brother Umar

I can drive, go to school, move about without a male relative, etc., but I would trade all of that and then some to live in Saudi Arabic. I would love half of what Brother Talal spoke about.

So, whenever you're ready to give up you're spot, I'd gladly take it. :-)

US Citizen
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0 urooj 2012-01-23 15:29 #
i am proud of u!! :D
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0 zeeshan 2012-01-23 15:43 #
ahan indeed a good article , but the iqama issue is the biggest of all. . . .
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0 Alia Ahmed Dalwai 2012-01-23 16:44 #
Mashallah! Beautiful article! I loved the part about food! I swear, the shawarmas you get in Saudi are DIVINE! Nothing in this world can compare to it! And of course the way the ladies are treated! Mashallah! They give so much respect to women in Saudi! I keep on telling people that Women are cherished in Saudi and they stare at me! Lols! Wonderful article!
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+1 AyeshaM 2012-01-23 16:50 #
Truly expresses my feelings about this country! i love that i have belonged here for so long.

@umar. every society has the good and the bad. we should all be thankful that the bad here is a minority. unlike most other so called Muslim countries.
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0 Sakina 2012-01-23 18:13 #
MashaAllah. I appreciated the paragraph about women/family. Thank you for sharing that perspective.
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+1 Maysoon Ali 2012-01-23 19:00 #
This article has made me want to visit Saudi Arabia more, just to experience everything I have read here since it seems all so exciting, especially to taste the food :P But most of all it's my dream to able to visit the holy places of Makkah and Madinah inshaALLAH! You're extremely lucky mashaAllah!
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0 Umm Abdullah 2012-01-23 20:29 #
This was a nice article but I felt like it was cut short.
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0 Wissam 2012-01-23 21:28 #
VEry nice talal... proud of u
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0 AbuMuhaajir 2012-01-25 13:39 #
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmathullah.,

"I would call it the world’s most religious country, and rightly so" - these words are witnessing the exaggeration handled in most of the part of this article.

Simply i can say, they just like our performance not our presence. However i would love to live here forever by compromising all inconvenient, just for SHIRK FREE environment.
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0 Umm_abdullah 2012-01-25 15:35 #
AA,

MashaAllah very well written article. Sadly you touched on the topic but I feel either out of being reprimand or out of respect for the country, you kept it short in changes that need to be made ASAP. That picture of the man in orange suit won't share the same feeling as you, as in Islam there is equality yet not in saudi ! Anyone from any other nataionality even if born in suadi do not have the same staus as a born arab saudi. Non arabs who work in the conutry can not get a decent job beside been a cleaner or working in the market. When has anyone seen an arab clean in the streets of makkah? Yes these people are happy to do it but you must have seen how they get treated by the senior arab worker? I love Makkah and medinah, my heart cries Everytime I leave the country, but the people of that country are too proud and arrogant.  
The malls you talk of, go Riyadh they are only for family and women malls but only for arabs, a non Arab will not be allowed in it.
 May Allah change their hearts and guide to the sunnah of the prophet SAW. Remember no Arab is superior to a non Arab except in pity, and only Allah knows what is in our heart.
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0 Khadijah 2012-01-25 18:03 #
Asalam Alaykum,
I liked the article and I also like it when non Saudis speak up about the country. It does seem more like a summary though, agreed. A list of what I love about this country would make for quite a long article and without neglecting the things I do not like would also make a long article. I am an American with Saudi citizenship due to being married to a Saudi. I have been here for over 20 years and while there are negatives, when I look back at my time here, I don't regret moving or staying.
Of course I could also make a lengthy article on the good and bad of living in America. Its different for everyone. As a Muslim and a mother bringing up my children here found its reward as they grew up. Going to the states and not having scandalous stories to tell about my children is comforting. The fact that my children know more about the rest of the world than I did at their age is also a comfort. It brought compassion, understanding and patience to them. No Saudi is not perfect nor is any other country. But for some of us its the right country to live in.

@Um_Abdullah, saying that the people of this country are too proud and arrogant is a generalization. And as we all know, no one person or group defines the entire population. I know many who are not arrogant nor proud. I come from an American military family very proud to the extent of being arrogant, hmm and they are no where near being Saudi.
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0 talaltalal 2012-02-02 12:01 #
Asalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatoh

First of all , I'm from Saudi Arabia but honestly I loved you as I love my brother because of this truth we have the same religion (ISLAM) therefore we are brothers.
Keep in mind all countries appear as Geographic borders between locations due to the equilibria of economy and security only but in reality there is a thing that is bigger , stronger and greater than all of the international routine [[it's the biggest truth (ISLAM)]]
الحمدلله رب العالمين
وقال تعالى : ((وجلعناكم شعوباُ وقبائل لتعارفوا ان اكرمكم عند الله اتقاكم))

thank you so much my brother.
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0 sal 2012-02-06 11:22 #
Salam,

I was born in a piece of Land were Islam was started - Saudi Arabia. Islam is all about peace, Equality, Love etc.. But none of this is actually followed in this Country. Foreigners are treated harshly by the Localities, Never a saudi generally smiles at you at any place let it be a shopping store or a supermarket. I have lived through out my life here and still panic about all the rumours and the new Rules being applied by the Ministry of Interior. I mean this is my home and I actually treat it as one and have always been a good Expat.
GOD BLESS HUMANITY


"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of ones mind."
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0 Quran Recitation 2012-02-15 12:03 #
I like this article, it is beautifully describes to Saudi Arabia. Saudi Arabia was backward place in the sense of ignorance, crucial and long term war exists among different group of people. But after the revolution of Islam, it is the most desirable place for the Muslims in the world. People have long term wish to go there and perform Hajj and Ummra.
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0 novi 2012-03-11 14:37 #
yup..i love saudi too ^^
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0 novi 2012-03-11 14:37 #
yup..i love saudi too ^^
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0 tegel outlet 2012-03-12 07:42 #
Great post Thanks for sharing :)
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